
Ich möchte in nächster Zeit eine Reihe zum Themen "Meine Wohnung, mein Zuhause" posten. Eigene Erfahrungen und die anderer Frauen, Tips und Tricks, wie eine Wohnung ein Zuhause wird, wo man sich wohl fühlt und wo jeder, der durch die Tür geht, Friede, Harmonie und Gottes Anwesenheit und Segen spürt. Ich bin keine Expertin auf dem Gebiet und freue mich über Anregungen, Hinweise und Erfahrungen von euch.
Anfangen möchte ich, mit einem Text von Sherrin (A deeper love).
"I think as wives and mothers (und Singlefrauen), we have a tendency to fall in to the trap of perfectionism rather easily. It starts with a very good and noble desire to set a godly example for our families, our fellow Christians, and the lost. But, before we know it, we start comparing ourselves to others and feeling we fall woefully short." Jennie Chancey, Passionate Housewives Desperate for God, page 70.
One of my favourite parts of Passionate Housewives Desperate for God: Fresh Vision for the Hopeful Homemaker by Jennie Chancey and Stacy McDonald is the chapter titled “Too Good to be True: Freedom from the Bondage of Perfectionism”.
“God gets all the glory when weak and frail sinners succeed.” Jennie Chancey.
When we are weak, we are reminded of our need for God. He is the only one who can make us holy, or enable us to succeed in any way. Jennie does not advocate laxness or laziness, but she does help readers to have realistic expectations of their own abilities. God does not wait for us to be perfect before he uses us to accomplish great things through our homes.
I particularly need to learn to trust that God can accomplish what he desires in my home despite the limitations of my chronic back pain and even my sin. If I am very sore and need to sit or lie down, instead of trying to do housework and ending up in tears, that is OK. If I become weepy because I let sinful emotions rule, this serves as another reminder of the fact that I need to continually repent and come to Christ. God is perfect and I am not. That is why he sent his son to die on the cross for my sins.
I’ll end with a final encouraging quote:
“But however noble our goals may be, they are utter fully if we do not keep foremost the greatest goal of them all: “He must increase; I must decrease” (John 3:30). It isn’t about me. It doesn’t depend on me. I will never be “good enough”, but God will always be gracious enough.”



























